
All about Self-esteem by Teru Nakashima, Japan
Teru Nakashima: A Pioneer in Self-Esteem Psychology
# Teru Nakashima: Leading Voice in Self-Esteem Psychology
Teru Nakashima is a prominent Japanese psychological counselor, author, and public speaker who developed "Natural Psychology," an approach to enhancing self-acceptance and transforming lives. After overcoming severe personal struggles, including a decade as a hikikomori (social recluse) and multiple suicide attempts, he independently studied psychology and therapy, developing methods that led to his own recovery and eventually helping others.
## Core Theory and Methodology
Nakashima's theory of self-acceptance centers on six fundamental elements:
- Sense of Existence: Feeling one's life has value
- Sense of Competence: Believing in one's abilities
- Sense of Belonging: Feeling accepted in society
- Sense of Security: Having a safe space
- Self-Trust: Being reliable and dependable
- Self-Esteem: Recognizing one's inherent worth
His methodology follows three key steps:
1. Self-Recognition: Acknowledging all aspects of oneself
2. Self-Acceptance: Embracing one's complete self
3. Self-Affirmation: Recognizing one's inherent value
## Impact and Work
Nakashima has authored several bestselling books, including "Three Steps to Enhance Self-Acceptance" and "How to Love Yourself." He conducts training sessions nationwide for corporations, educational institutions, and hospitals. His YouTube channel and daily newsletter provide practical guidance on self-acceptance and personal growth.
His unique contribution includes the concept of "mental brakes" - unconscious blocks formed from past trauma and negative thought patterns. He teaches that true self-acceptance isn't about forced positivity but embracing one's authentic self completely. Nakashima also introduces "fudoshin" (immovable mind) as the ultimate state of self-acceptance - maintaining inner stability regardless of external circumstances.
His work particularly resonates in Japanese society, where issues of self-worth and social pressure are prevalent. Through seminars, books, digital content, and counseling sessions, Nakashima continues to provide hope and practical guidance to those struggling with self-acceptance, while his principles are increasingly applied in organizational development to improve workplace relationships and employee well-being.
Episodes
Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Acceptance

The Art of Self-Reliance: Lessons from Emerson

Be True to Yourself: The Wisdom of Ralph Waldo Emerson in Modern Life

The Happiness Within: Teru Nakashima's Path to Self-Affirmation and Joy

The Happiness Blueprint: Teru Nakashima's Guide to Self-Affirmation and Fulfillment

The Art of Attracting Luck: Lessons from Shohei Ohtani and Teru Nakashima

Tarot Insights: Discovering Inner Strength

Navigating Self-Doubt Through Tarot

Six Layers of Self-Affirmation: Coaching for Life

The Inner Dialogue: Unpacking Our Thoughts

Finding Meaning: Frankl's Wisdom on Self-Worth

The Compass of Self-Trust

Finding Meaning: What Viktor Frankl Taught Me About Self-Worth

"You Are the Average of the Five People You Spend the Most Time With"

Your Friends are the Roots: Discovering the Power of Connection

The Secret Garden of Self-Affirmation: Nourishing Your Spirit

Magic Words: From Weeds to Blooms

Words Weaving Your Future Story: The Power of Affirmative Language

Words Matter: The Secret Life of Your Self-Talk

The Power of Words: Transforming Self-Talk

Magic of Alone Time: Rediscovering Yourself

Why Alone Time Is Essential for Your Self-Esteem

Thriving Together: The Hidden Benefits of Peer Influence

Affirmation Beyond Maslow's Hierarchy

Cultivating the "Six Senses": Daily Habits for Self-Growth
